Relationships are not easy to be in no matter who you are. There are always people around that will try to poke nose, dissect, dictate and compare everything in your relationship for you.
In this time where social media has become a universe on its own and people spend more time on it than on their real lives. It is no wonder that people who are in the limelight are constantly hounded so as to know the minutest details of what goes on in their lives.
But should they now make it a point of duty to give an update?
Celebrities especially should keep their relationship strictly to themselves and ensure their partner is doing same as well. This is because they are to a large extent responsible for the success of that relationship and not their friends, fans or social media followers.
Funke Akindele is an example of someone who kept her relationship to her second husband very close to her chest. Imagine what would have happened otherwise, her past and his would have been so twisted into something ugly that they would have had a hard time believing otherwise. She successfully kept her pregnancy a secret as well. As far as secrets go she should be given an award.
There are a lot of groupies out there that compromise the integrity of people because they are just “celebrity junkies” who are attracted by the status. They do not just care who they hurt, they are simply having fun.
Someone you told in confidence might let it slip giving out information that may be misconstrued and may cause more harm than good.
Some people on the other hand are “career relationship wreckers” who are experts at doing and saying the right things that will make a world class romance turn to a bitter history lesson.
When a secret relationship ends, it ends with little drama but if it was a whirlwind romance in which everyone was privy to, social media will have a field day, some people will make sure that they post the most savage comments that may end up hurting more, that
A lot of celebrity relationships and marriages have ended abruptly because they wanted to share their bliss and in the process dug the “relationship grave.”
On the other hand some celebrities give updates on their relationship as a way to be relevant and increase their followers, they should understand that people do not really care. You are just the recent gist people will quickly read, talk about for a few seconds and then…next!!!