A woman going under the name of Samantha X has explained that her time as a high-time escort has given her insight into different men from various walks of life.
According to her, a man who is determined to cheat will always find the time no matter how busy his life seems to be.
Saying that men will always stray no matter how strong or perfect a mariage/family is, she categorized the reasons why men cheat into three.
The first set of men are those who have not had sex or initiate contact with their wives, sometimes it could be as high as years. These men she says feel like a walking credit card and because they don’t want to hurt their children or lose money for a divorce, they look outside.
Then there are those who insist they love their wives but “admit they just need variety”. These sets are about the quick fix and taking a break from the regular that they are used to.
The third is the ones she calls the “most complex lot” – the very happily married man where there appears to be no reason.
In her chat with News.com.au, Samantha said that some men choose to see sex workers rather than having an affair because they “don’t want the headache” and believe they would probably get caught. Although they say they don’t want to hurt their partners and destroy their marriage, Samantha says she often thinks their wives know but turn a blind eye rather than having to face starting their lives again.
“It’s not my job to judge. If there’s anything I’ve learnt in my role as Samantha is that it is not a perfect world, we are not perfect people and everyone is just doing the best they can. At first I found it hard to comprehend why happily married men seek intimacy elsewhere, whether it be with sex workers (which they assure me isn’t cheating …) or have long-term affairs.
“I see, hear and meet enough married men as Samantha to put me off saying ‘I do’ for life. And let me assure you, it’s not just men who stray. Plenty of women do it too, and I’ve had plenty of clients devastated about their wives’ affairs.”