Guys, we get it. Menstruation is not your favorite topic in the world. However, for the sake of treating your lady the way she deserves to be treated and forming a stronger bond in your relationship, you’ve got to get comfortable with the idea of menstruation.
The whole idea of supporting your woman during her monthly period goes far beyond the 3 to 5 days her period may last. In fact, it is the days that lead up to the ‘red’ day that you should be more concerned about. Some women experience severe premenstrual symptoms when their period is around the corner. They get mood swings, uncomfortable, irritable, super horny (you probably love this part), immobile, angry and when the period finally shows up, they feel sharp stabs of pain in their stomachs.
If you truly care about your lady, you will make efforts to be a good boyfriend/husband by doing the following:
Be Patient With Her
During her time of the month, your woman’s hormones will be all over the place—making her feel frustrated, easily pissed and sarcastic. You may be moved to say or do things both of you will end up regretting if you are not careful. Try not to react to her irritable attitude. Be patient and understanding instead.
Buy Her Sanitary Pads
If you can present a gift of sanitary pads and chocolates to your girlfriend or wife in the week her period falls on without her telling you she’s on her period, she will hardly ever doubt your love for her. To surprise her this way, you’ve got to mark the date her monthly period falls on, on your calendar. You will be saving her the money she’d have spent on sanitary pads, what gift could be better?
Prepare Hot Baths
Preparing a hot bath for your lady during her period is one of the sweetest things you can do for her during this period. Her body needs all the warmth it can get at this time especially if she’s the type that experiences painful cramps. Either a hot bath or some hot water bottles will do. You could help her keep the hot water bottle on her tummy.
Many women love cuddling up, spooning and all that mushy stuff. During her period, she may crave for it more. So give her all the belly rubs, kisses and hugs she wants. Note, your woman may get super-horny when she is ovulating or during her period, if you think you can engage in period sex, then why not?
You just have to be because different women want different things during their monthly period. Some women may want you to get all caring and clingy to them when they are on their period while some will want you to just leave them alone. Be attentive enough to know what she needs and do your best to give it to her.
All the best, dude!