Bet you are thinking right now that a woman who truly loves you wouldn’t think twice before stretching out her hand for you to insert your ring. So if she hesitates and says something like “give me more time please” or “let me think about it” or even a blatant “no,” does that mean she doesn’t love you?
If your answer is yes, you are probably right. But don’t click the back button yet, there are certain factors you are not considering. While you kneel down with a ring in your hand at a bar, she may be disappointed at that moment that you don’t know her enough to know that she despises public scenes, so she sidelines you.
Besides, the act of proposing can nerve you out and make you act in a weird way. Armed with the right tips though, you can prevent some avoidable hitches from spoiling your proposal. Here is how to propose to your Girlfriend the right way:
Relax And Be Normal
One of the major reasons why you are proposing is probably because you feel she is the right woman for you. You are sure she understands, supports and really cares about you. That being the case, there is really no need for you to overdo things just because you want to propose. She has your back, remember? So calm those nerves or you might end up ruining the whole thing.
Pick A Perfect Time
Nothing ruins a good gesture faster than wrong timing. If you care about your proposal having some amount of substance, consider the day or time you plan on proposing. Ensure that she isn’t too busy or occupied.
Choose A Reasonable Setting
Is she is an outdoor or indoor type? You have to know, as this can help you pick a setting that she will love. Sure, you can propose anywhere but adding extra effort show that you’ve put a lot of thought to the proposal. You could always take her to the place you met her or somewhere else that’s special to both of you. She will definitely appreciate it and hold the moment dear to her heart always and forever.
Rev Up The Romance
An extra touch of romance is a plus. Sometimes, it isn’t bad to imitate the lover-boys in romance movies. Trails of flowers on the floor, candle lights, special dinner, and soft romantic music are some proposal ideas she might have already dreamt of. You giving it to her will be a dream come true.
Don’t mess it up! Follow your heart as well as the tips listed here.