You have most likely heard the popular question, “what do women want?” One minute, you can swear she likes you with all of that green light she is giving, and the next minute, you are left perplexed as to where you stand with her.
The truth is, when it comes to flirting with a woman, it is confusing to know when she is into you and when she is just being kind.
Luckily for you, there are signs that can let you know if the feelings are mutual or not. We have rounded up some of the telltale signs that can help you decide whether she returns your feelings or not.
She’s very touchy-feely with you
If a woman finds reasons to touch you or be touched by you, there is a strong indication that she is into you. She doesn’t mind hugging you and we don’t mean a standard hug but a sincere hug. Being touchy makes your relationship less formal and means she is very comfortable with and around you.
Her friends know about you
If a woman has a crush, the likelihood of her telling her friends about her feelings is very high. Let’s face it, she is bursting to let you know how she feels but she would rather share with her intimate girl pals than you so if she lets it drop that she discussed you with her friend or her friends give you a knowing look when they see you together, know that she definitely likes you.
She laughs at your jokes
In 2007, a Richard Lippa/BBC study surveyed 200,000 people about attraction and found that women’s most-desired trait in a man is a sense of humor; women like men who make them laugh. Interestingly though, a University of Stirling study showed that finding someone funny is not an objective thing. In fact, it’s more of a symptom of attraction – if you’re already drawn to someone, you’ll find them funny. So, if a woman is laughing at your jokes (even the bad ones), it could be a sign she’s into you.
She tells you personal things about her life
If a girl likes you, she would be interested in having deep conversations with you that will turn personal. It goes beyond her just telling you her favourite colour or meal, she would be interested in letting you know her dreams and ambitions for the future. Sharing these with you means she trusts.
She is open to a date with you
If she is opened to the idea of going out on a personal date with you, it means that she is looking at taking your relationship to the next level. Spending one-on-one time gives room for more bonding and can lead to more intimate flirting.
She asks you a lot of questions
If she wants to know things like what type of childhood you have to what you loved doing while at the university, know that she is trying to get to know you. If a woman begins to ask you personal questions in the simplest ways, she is definitely interested in you.
She is concerned about her looks around you
A woman that likes you will be concerned about whether you find her physically attractive or not. If she makes the extra effort to look good when around you, she is surely passing across a message that she likes you.