Marriage is a practice that has been followed by the society for the past few centuries. Having the wrong goals or “point” to your marriage can leave you feeling frustrated, alone, or even reeling in confusion or anger. First things first, the point of marriage is not happiness, the point of marriage is growth. Lack of defined, acknowledged purpose, or setting wrong marital goals can result in you facing trouble keeping your relationship alive and taking it towards success.
Happiness, Respect, And Commitment
When a man and woman get married, the “two become one. Marriage is a bond like no other. It gives us a life partner, a teammate, as we move through the challenges of life together. Usually, people with similar interests get married as they tend to get along better. When working towards similar life goals, it helps to lay a strong foundation of happiness, respect and commitment to the marriage.
Parenting/Starting A Family
When a marriage produces a child or receives a child through adoption, it is one of life’s greatest blessings. Children are seen as the way to extend the family line, to forward family traditions as well as family heritage. Children also tend to bring the couple closer to each other, and their love for each other only grows. When children are raised in a healthy marriage, they get a front-row seat to see and experience the lasting benefits of a strong family.
Growth As A Couple
Having a partner to grow and nurture yourself together is a gift of marriage. One of the advantages of marriage is that you and your partner will learn to cooperate and instead help each other work through hard times. You can learn and transform into a better version of yourself, be what you have always wanted to be. Growth stretches the boundaries of your comfort zone and pushes you to your limits to bring out the maximum capabilities of you as a human.
One of the points of getting married is to lead us towards fulfillment or completeness of life. When you get married, you step into a significant phase of life that leads you towards a more blissful state. If you are feeling alone in marriage, this is one of the signs you should work in it together to make it an enriching journey.