Whether it’s romantic, raunchy, or somewhere in between, these tried-and-true tricks will help you find that ~spark~ again.
Challenge Your Partner To A Game
When your relationship has been going on for a while, things may get a bit dull in the bedroom. You can spice things up by playing games that bring life to both of you. These games can serve as the Viagra to your relationship.
Set The Scene
Add a bit of romance and a little extra by helping your partner get into the mood with some romantic setting. The lights, light candles, play romantic music, put on sexy underwear and if you are feeling adventurous, you can even include a sex toy.
Spontaneity is always hot (like getting naked in the middle of the kitchen right after work). Learn to enjoy quickies or do something out of the blue that you both don’t do on the daily. The key is to keep the excitement going and wondering what daring thing either of you will do next.
Try Blind Oral
Blindfold your partner before performing oral sex, using an actual blindfold or a discarded piece of clothing. Inhibiting their sight will make all the other senses hyper-alert, and not knowing what you will do next will heighten anticipation.
Play Sexy Trivia
If you have a significant history with your partner, take turns asking one another questions about your time together. Try “Where was our first date?” or “When was our first kiss?” If they answer correctly, you have to remove an article of clothing. If you stump them, their clothes come off.
Make A Sex Playlist
Include different genres, tempos, and rhythms. Try to match your pace and rhythm with that of each new song.
Try New Locations
Have sex on the kitchen counter. Get it on in the hallway. Do it on the couch or in your bedroom closet. It doesn’t matter where just pick a place that isn’t your usual spot.
Test New Positions
A new position isn’t always comfortable, but often you’re defying circumstances and sometimes gravity! Try standing up you’ll touch places you don’t usually have access to or put a pillow under your butt. The angle helps with deeper penetration.
Brainstorm A List Of Fantasies
Create a bucket list of no-stress, exciting ideas to try together. If you come up with something that both parties aren’t into, put it on a ‘maybe’ list, and revisit it later. Not only is making a list together fun, simply talking about desires can keep things hot. Communication allows you to fantasize consensually so that you can focus on pleasure in the bedroom with no hesitation.